How to Always Please Your Partner
The Good Lover
What does it mean to be a good lover? Have you ever thought about your
We Are Not Defined by Our Relationships
We Are Not Defined by Our Relationships
You are not defined by the people that you date, nor by
What is a Sex Therapist?
What is a Sex Therapist?
You may have wondered what a sex therapist does, as I’ve labeled myself as one
3 Myths About Polyamory
Recently, a friend joked that people get into polyamorous relationships because they have a fetish for emotional processing. We laughed,
Why Does Distraction Feel So Good?
Why Does Distraction Feel So Good?
Have you ever found yourself pulling out your phone to look something
Why Eating Whole Foods Makes Me Sad
On January 1st, I began a detox from my hedonistic holiday lifestyle. It’s been fun and tasty, but I am
How to Make Good Sex Last
Finding The One
“Never before have people invested so much in love, and never before [have they been]
Am I Queer Enough?
“Am I queer enough?”
This weekend I presented a workshop on “Queering Group Therapy.” Once again, I was struck
How to Cope with Death
Why Is This Happening?
As I write this, a longtime friend is dying in a hospice bed across town. This
Why You Should Disappoint People
Our Desire to Please
I get tickled when I surprise a friend with some unexpected delight, such as their
