3 Myths About Polyamory
Recently, a friend joked that people get into polyamorous relationships because they have a fetish for emotional processing. We laughed,
Why Does Distraction Feel So Good?
Why Does Distraction Feel So Good?
Have you ever found yourself pulling out your phone to look something
Why Eating Whole Foods Makes Me Sad
On January 1st, I began a detox from my hedonistic holiday lifestyle. It’s been fun and tasty, but I am
How to Make Good Sex Last
Finding The One
“Never before have people invested so much in love, and never before [have they been]
Am I Queer Enough?
“Am I queer enough?”
This weekend I presented a workshop on “Queering Group Therapy.” Once again, I was struck
How to Cope with Death
Why Is This Happening?
As I write this, a longtime friend is dying in a hospice bed across town. This
Why You Should Disappoint People
Our Desire to Please
I get tickled when I surprise a friend with some unexpected delight, such as their
Codependency is a Myth
Codependency is a Myth
Codependency is a word that gets tossed around a lot these days. It evokes feelings of
Why Therapy Can Make You Feel Worse
How Therapy Works
Our minds and bodies are brilliant. When we experience situations that overwhelm us, our minds protect
What I Wish Everyone Knew About Love
Falling in love can feel like diving off a cliff.
For me, it’s exhilarating and terrifying, dizzying and
