Finding The One
“Never before have people invested so much in love, and never before [have they been]
“Am I queer enough?”
This weekend I presented a workshop on “Queering Group Therapy.” Once again, I was struck
Why Is This Happening?
As I write this, a longtime friend is dying in a hospice bed across town. This
Our Desire to Please
I get tickled when I surprise a friend with some unexpected delight, such as their
Codependency is a Myth
Codependency is a word that gets tossed around a lot these days. It evokes feelings of
How Therapy Works
Our minds and bodies are brilliant. When we experience situations that overwhelm us, our minds protect
Falling in love can feel like diving off a cliff.
For me, it’s exhilarating and terrifying, dizzying and
We hear a lot of advice about how to be happy.
In fact, I just wrote two blog posts
In the last post, Warning: You Are Missing Out, I talked about the negativity bias, and how seeing the good
Why do we think life is so hard?
I was listening to an episode of the podcast Freakonomics